Over the Holidays: Spotting Signs an Aging Loved One May Need More Help
The holiday season is often a time when we gather with family members we may not see regularly throughout the year. While these reunions are filled with joy and connection, they can also be a time when we notice changes in our loved ones that might cause concern. Whether it’s subtle physical differences or more apparent cognitive changes, the holidays can be a pivotal moment for recognizing when someone may need increased support.
Here are some signs to watch for:
Changes in Physical Appearance or Hygiene: If your loved one appears disheveled, seems to have lost weight, or isn’t taking care of themselves as they used to, this could be a sign of declining health or mobility issues.
Memory Lapses or Confusion: Pay attention if they seem forgetful, confused about recent events, or struggle to follow conversations. These could be early signs of cognitive decline or conditions like dementia.
Difficulty with Mobility: Watch for unsteady walking, trouble getting up from a chair, or a fear of falling. These changes may indicate physical weakness or balance problems, which can increase the risk of accidents at home.
Neglecting the Home: A once-tidy home that now seems cluttered or dirty might be a sign that they are struggling to manage daily tasks. You may also notice bills piling up or essential home repairs being neglected.
Behavioral Changes: Mood swings, isolation, or a loss of interest in hobbies they once enjoyed could indicate depression or other mental health concerns.
If any of these signs ring true, it may be time to start a conversation about their needs. This can be a challenging subject to bring up, but the sooner it’s addressed, the sooner you can ensure their safety and well-being. Whether it’s adjusting their living environment, arranging for in-home care, or discussing long-term care options, taking action now can help prevent a crisis later.
The holiday season may be the perfect time to connect not just with your loved ones but also with the resources and support that can make their lives easier and more comfortable. We’re here to help you navigate these difficult decisions and ensure your loved ones get the care and support they need. Contact us today to learn more about planning for your family’s future.
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